How I live solo?

 Solo is the sense of wearing sneakers rather then heels and still making a damn statement.

Well... well... well... I have waited long to discuss on this topic and elaborate the style of my living.

First thing first, What is solo?

It is pretty same to Demi Lovato's song "solo", no kidding. This way of living considers your comfort as the priority, as you live solo, you get to understand where exactly you as a person stand in others life and what makes you stand out.

 People do confuse it with either introvert nutshell for a weak person or as a narcissistic attitude towards life, it ain't that. Solo is not about distancing yourself from others( though you should, or you know this Coronavirus thing exists). It is simply you by yourself, taking time for you and unleash the passion within to rule over life itself.

It involves you taking leave from the hustle of world and writing your own rhythm. 

Secondly, How?

Here are my top ways of learning how to be your own alpha.

1. Analyze people as you talk to them, take notes from their mistakes and understand.

People make mistakes, and those mistakes generally become the key points of how they narrate their misery or life. Observe those mistakes and patterns, try to understand their situation, the density of the character, start analyzing people as you talk to them. Understanding is the way you expect to be treated, so same goes to your deed list, yah, I know not everyone can pretend to be a counselor for the one weeping on their shoulders, but least, we can respect their story. Learn to respect others experiences and life story.

2.  Read often, let it be fiction, non-fiction, informative, any type. just read.

Reading puts your brain into thinking in right direction. It is rather better in terms of making you more aware and wise as you read through characters and see the way they improve. Books which dip into the world of poetry brings deeper understanding and the ones with a lot of philosophy and facts make you more logical towards life.

3. Writing the day out. 

Writing is by far the best step to keep your mind stable. Writing about your day is somewhat similar to the way you chat with your gang. This time, rather then texting others, try chatting with yourself. Take a sip of coffee, or lemonade or any beverage you like and pour your heart on the page. Trust me when I say, it really feels good doing this.

4. Learn to do independent tasks.

Learn to cook, or fixing things around. it is a nice way to make yourself appear like a winner in your eyes and it helps boost the motivation. Try designing hobbies and adopting one, do it often, daily rather. Keep your brain busy for what is worth it. 

5. Find your best friend in your parents.

For the low days, wouldn't it be better to have a friend who will always be close to you. Try bonding with your parents and talk to them, share stories from your life and listen to theirs, introduce them to the world of memes. Having an open relationship with your parents makes you feel light and understood. It increases confidence and makes you bolder with your identity.

6. Cut off trash talkers.

Moment of silence for the ones who gossip shit. Leave toxic, or just-for-talks people. ENDLINE

So these were my baby steps to become a fine solo. Find your ways and tell me more about it by commenting. Take care and live the edge.

XO